What guides what we say and do? Love or Fear.

Los Angeles Life and Relationship Coach Leslie J Saul

These two opposing emotions help create our own realities and experiences. What we do and what we say is either from love or fear.

Many of us react and act out of fear. Fear unfortunately holds us back from what we truly deserve in our lives: love. Many people I come across don’t know how to get past their fears and act from a place of love. I would even argue that many people are confused as to what love is.

Love isn’t to be found, it’s to be shared. You are love, love is you. Fear is the opposite. Whereas love is unselfish, fear is the opposite. The more we act out of fear, the more it envelops us until we are isolated and miserable. The more we are isolated and miserable the more we act out of fear. This horrible cycle continues until we choose to break that cycle.

A recent client of mine has been guided by fear for too long. He wanted so badly to break the cycle but didn’t know how. I stressed that love is only given when that is all you feel. You need to feel you HAVE to share your love with the world. There is no other way.

To work through his fear, we needed to get to the root of it. I wanted him to feel safe and for him to understand that the reality he created for himself can indeed be changed. We chatted about ways to calm his mind down so he can relax. Once he was able to relax we took charge of that opportunity to fill his mind with love. He surrounded himself with people that made him feel safe and protected. He needed this environment in order for him to continue to rest his mind and banish fear from his life once and for all.

LOVE is really all you need.