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Say What You Mean and Mean What You Say

So, why not say what you mean and mean what you say? As a society, we have a hard time saying what we mean and being assertive. Studies like this one from Columbia show that being too assertive and not assertive enough are both shown as weaknesses in leaders. We are a culture of sugar-coating and not being fully honest – we skirt the truth because that little white lie doesn’t hurt anyone’s feelings. But I must ask, wouldn’t we all be less confused if people said what they really meant? “I’ll call you,” meaning “I won’t call you.” “I’ll pay [...]

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Top 3 Things Guys do to Irritate a Woman, Turning Her Off

Stop turning her off and start turning her on Guys make some of the dumbest mistakes with it comes to women. Sometimes they can be downright annoying. Trust me on that. The truth is there are as many ways for a guy to irritate a woman that will start turning her off, as there are diet plans promising a new and better you! We certainly can't talk about all of them in this one blog post. However, I do want to take a moment and discuss three of the things guys do that not only irritate a woman but also [...]

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3 Secrets to Communication and Connection with Your Man

How to go deeper in your love relationship through communication and connection. Have you ever felt like you just weren't "getting through" to your husband or boyfriend? Isn't it funny that the sex that has the greatest need for communication and connection can often fail completely when it comes to effectively communicating with their male counterparts? News flash ladies: Men don't think like women. Men don't communicate and connect like women. Men don't process communication and connection like women. Do it wrong, and you risk driving a wedge between you that can ultimately lead to the destruction of the relationship. [...]

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How to Avoid the Top 5 Mistakes Men Make With Women

Mistakes Men Make With Women and How To Avoid Them. If you are a guy looking to score big with a girl (And by that I mean really connect in a meaningful way) then the best and safest thing for you to do is to learn from the mistake of the other idiot men who have gone before you. Learn from their pain. It beats suffering the pain yourself. Thankfully, there is no shortage of men who have done completely asinine things in an attempt to win a girl. For the sake of brevity, I have sorted them down to [...]

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Growth – A Bit of Living; A Bit of Growing.

It all adds up to you. Strong foundation and growth As we grow, we change. We all know that to be true. We all want growth right? When someone says "You are not the person you used to be." I say, "I certainly hope not!" To think that I could have lived and loved, and experienced life; without being changed in some way would be, in a word, unacceptable. The Ingredients of Life - Growth Life is made up of experiences. Those experiences are the ingredients that make us the person we are. What we experience changes us. [...]

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