Dating

Have You Found ‘The One’?

How do you know that person is 'the one'? Do you remember the exact moment when you realize that the person you are with is perfect for you? I hope you have relationships like this. It always warms my heart to hear of stories of falling in love from friends and clients.  It is living proof that the universe is out to help each and every one of us. Let's get back to the original question.  When you fall in love, is it based on a set of emotions or logic? Many people describe their partners as caring, kind and [...]

Are You Dating A Fluke or Flounder?

Fluke Or Flounder And When To Cut Bait In the world of dating, there are tons of fish in the sea.  How do you know if what you have caught is Fluke or Flounder?  One of our greatest assets is having the right to set our own boundaries and knowing when to cut bait. Learning when you should do that will save you tons of anguish, frustration and time. If the man you are dating demonstrates any of the following signs--HE is a Fluke. Cut bait and cast out again until you catch the Flounder.   He refers to women as [...]

Let’s Talk About Sex and Dating

Sex and dating. Let's talk about sex and dating Oops, I mean LOVE and dating! Captain Leslie J. Saul: Captains Blog, stardate 9522.6: I've never trusted Youngins', and I never will. I could never forgive them for MTV. It seems to me his mission to escort me to dinner is more a prelude to a peace summit. This is problematic at best. He says this could be a historic occasion, and I'd like to believe him, but how on earth can history get past people like me? 8 PM Monday night…shoving a 6 pack of White Castle burgers into [...]