infidelity

3 Secrets to Communication and Connection with Your Man

How to go deeper in your love relationship through communication and connection. Have you ever felt like you just weren't "getting through" to your husband or boyfriend?  Isn't it funny that the sex that has the greatest need for communication and connection can often fail completely when it comes to effectively communicating with their male counterparts? News flash ladies: Men don't think like women.  Men don't communicate and connect like women.  Men don't process communication and connection like women.  Do it wrong, and you risk driving a wedge between you that can ultimately lead to the destruction of the relationship. [...]

Whose Guilt is it Anyway?

Refusing to Accept the Guilt in an Abusive Relationship Abusers are the lowest form of humanity on the planet.  Anyone who would use force to dominate another individual to the point of physical, emotional or sexual abuse is indeed a sad individual.  Throughout the years it continues to surprise me how much power these abusive individuals have in the lives of their victims. I believe one of the reasons abusers can control so effectively is their skillful use of guilt in the life of the one they are tormenting.  I have seen countless individuals continue to live under a sense [...]

How to Rebuild the Trust and Love in a Relationship after Infidelity

Finding out that your loved one has been unfaithful is absolutely gut-wrenching and can cause you to feel lost, devastated, disillusioned and resentful. While the initial shock and anger might leave you wanting your other half to rot in hell, you really need to make a decision as to whether or not you can, or want, to move past it; and if your relationship is important enough to try to work through the broken trust and issues that have arisen. Some people consider infidelity to be a total deal breaker that there is no coming back from. But if you’re [...]