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Whose Guilt is it Anyway?

Refusing to Accept the Guilt in an Abusive Relationship Abusers are the lowest form of humanity on the planet. Anyone who would use force to dominate another individual to the point of physical, emotional or sexual abuse is indeed a sad individual. Throughout the years it continues to surprise me how much power these abusive individuals have in the lives of their victims. I believe one of the reasons abusers can control so effectively is their skillful use of guilt in the life of the one they are tormenting. I have seen countless individuals continue to live under a sense [...]

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What Does The Ex Say?

Do you have an ex? Are you spending way too much time focused on what they are saying about you? Why do we do that? I mean, c'mon! They are an "ex!" Why do we care so much about what they think? If they really understood us and valued us they wouldn't have been the "ex" in the first place…right?" Sometimes an they just won't go away. Their words find a way into our heads and just stay there like the lines of an annoying song that we just can't seem to get out of our heads. We know it's [...]

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8 Symptoms of Obsessive Love Disorder

When does healthy love turn to an obsessive love disorder Obsessive Love Disorder Love is a wonderful feeling, and the start of a relationship is such an exciting time of getting to know one another, mixed with the feeling of not being able to get enough of each other. Wanting to spend time together is completely normal, but in a healthy relationship, both parties need to be able to function and be happy, without having to be joined at the hip. When you become reliant on the other person for your own happiness, the situation starts to transform [...]

Leslie Saul