relationships

How Does Your Guy View The Dating Relationship?

3 things every woman needs to know about how your guy views the dating relationship. Guys are simple, not stupid.  Okay, some guys are stupid.  Most are not.  When it comes to dating, it is not that guys don't get it; it is just that they view the dating relationship in a different way than a woman does.  Different is not always bad.  Different adds depth, and dimension to a relationship. It is not necessary for a woman to see dating the same way a man does, but it is necessary for her to understand how he views it.  This [...]

How to Hook a Guy (Mistakes Girls Make)

Avoiding the top 5 mistakes girls make with guys. The Huntress Girls have all the power in the dating relationship.  I know…you don't want me to say that out loud, but it's true.  Still, with all of the momentum girls already have, there are still a number of mistakes girls make with guys that can be real relationship killers. Look, the truth is that guys aren't that complicated.  I mean really; you feed them, stroke their egos a little, give them that look, (Yes…that look.) and splash on a generous amount of that "come hither" perfume, and they [...]

Do You Know Your Wants and Needs?

Do you know the difference between wants and needs? Wants and Needs So you are in a relationship and it just doesn't seem to be working?  Are you in between relationships and afraid you won't be able to find someone who can meet your needs?  Often, the trouble in our relationships stems from not understanding the fundamental differences between wants and needs. Do you know the difference? If I were to ask you what you need in a relationship in order to thrive, what would you say?  Are you sure that you are not confusing needs with wants?  [...]

Whose Guilt is it Anyway?

Refusing to Accept the Guilt in an Abusive Relationship Abusers are the lowest form of humanity on the planet.  Anyone who would use force to dominate another individual to the point of physical, emotional or sexual abuse is indeed a sad individual.  Throughout the years it continues to surprise me how much power these abusive individuals have in the lives of their victims. I believe one of the reasons abusers can control so effectively is their skillful use of guilt in the life of the one they are tormenting.  I have seen countless individuals continue to live under a sense [...]

The Love You Attract…

Is a mirror of the love you create One of the first rules of leadership is that you attract what you are, not what you want.  In other words, if you want a higher caliber or follower, be a higher caliber leader.  The same holds true in love.  We rarely attract the kind of love we want.  We attract the kind of love we have created, and the kind of love we are willing to give. Develop Your Love Before any relationship is successful, there must be personal development.  In the area of love, this takes introspection and a willingness [...]