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The Fog of Useless Emotions

Guilt and Self-Doubt-Useless Emotions You may not have realized it before, but self-doubt and guilt are useless emotions. They usually burst into your life hand-in-hand, each adding fuel to the other’s fire. In the simplest of explanations, self-doubt is a lack of faith in oneself. It can stem from low self-esteem, or from how others perceive (or how you believe they perceive) you and your abilities. It can sometimes arise after an alleged failure, but more often a series of ‘failures’ or incidents in which others have openly questioned your character and abilities must take place before self-doubt can set [...]

3 Top Secrets Married Men Know About Spotting a Great Girl

Learn the Secrets Married Men Know About Spotting a Great Girl Secrets Married Men Know Married men can spot great girls. Okay, that might sound a little obvious, but for once I am not talking about their ability to "check a girl out."  I am actually referring to their ability to spot a girl who would make a really great wife or girlfriend. It has been said that beauty is only skin deep, but ugly goes all the way to the bone. That is true!  It is also true that ugly can sometimes hide under that surface of [...]

Top 3 Things Guys do to Irritate a Woman, Turning Her Off

Stop turning her off and start turning her on Guys make some of the dumbest mistakes with it comes to women.  Sometimes they can be downright annoying.  Trust me on that.  The truth is there are as many ways for a guy to irritate a woman that will start turning her off, as there are diet plans promising a new and better you!  We certainly can't talk about all of them in this one blog post. However, I do want to take a moment and discuss three of the things guys do that not only irritate a woman but also [...]

Is She Available?

How to Recognize an Emotional Hang-up and What to Do About It. Photo by: VIKTOR HANACEK Is She Available? Women are known for being emotional creatures right?  I mean, that might sound a little like a stereotype, but c'mon, you know it's true!  So when you are dating a woman who is emotionally unavailable, what are you supposed to do?  How would you even know if she is shut off from you?  Are there signs you can look for?  What can you do about it if she is?  Let me give you some thoughts on identifying the problem, [...]

3 Ways to Tell if Your Guy is Emotionally Unavailable

Perhaps Your Guy Is Emotionally Unavailable If... Is your guy emotionally unavailable? You know what I mean.  In spite of all of your efforts, is there still a huge gap between you where it matters most?  The sad fact is that there are a lot of guys out there in the dating arena (both online and in-person) who project that they are open to a relationship but keep silent about the fact they are emotionally unavailable. The reasons for this condition are numerous, and no one situation is exactly like the other.  However, I want to take a [...]