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Looking for a Gentleman

Q: How do I find a gentleman? I'm single and starting to get out into dating again. I am finding that todays mores are in a terrible condition. What has happened to courtesy, thoughtfulness, manners and conversation. I can text, go on the PC, and much more. What has happened to calling on the phone. It seems that having sex with strangers is acceptable, but picking up the phone is taboo. I'm looking for a gentleman and he will get a kind and warm woman in return. Do any of these men still exist in today's society???? ~ Jakey

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The Importance of Intimacy in a Relationship

Your Body Is A Wonderland. The Importance of Intimacy https://youtu.be/N5EnGwXV_Pg Intimacy and sex are often mistaken as being one and the same but, even though the two are closely linked, they really are quite different. Men and women often view intimacy completely differently which can result in a vicious cycle that many couples struggle to work through. Many men have problems feeling intimate unless they have a satisfying sex life, while many women don’t enjoy sex without the intimacy. As women, we need to feel respected and appreciated all through the day, not just when we’re in the bedroom [...]

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The Games People Play-Online Dating

When it comes to dating and relationships, it can be hard to find genuine people who aren’t just looking for a hookup or looking to play games. Online dating makes it easier for people to play their little games because we can’t see them and pick up on their body language, like we would in the real world. It allows people to hide behind their creatively invented personas and draw you into a world of make-believe. Some people play games unknowingly, usually as a defense mechanism that is manifested from their insecurities. But on the other side of the spectrum, [...]

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How to Get Saucy and Spice up Your Love Life

Romance and food have always been linked in some way or another and for very good reason. We all know that certain foods such as chocolate, chili and oysters have aphrodisiac qualities and promote blood flow, but did you know that the textures and scents of different foods can also play a part in kicking your libido into action? Studies have shown that the scent of certain foods can have a dramatic effect in awakening the senses. Men’s bodies respond to sweeter scents such as vanilla, pumpkin, lavender and even freshly baked cookies whereas women seem to have more of [...]

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Quality Time. Is Your Guy Speaking Your Love Language

Are you spending quality time? When you hear the words “I need some quality time with you,” it is best to listen, IF you want to keep your Goddess. She is communicating her love language and you obviously have been kickin’ it and her. Many relationships suffer because men don’t want to spend quality time with their girl. She communicates, drops hints, makes suggestions, plans things and even begs. But you ignore her requests, poke fun, have another excuse or just choose to disregard her completely and go kickin’ it with the boys instead. In the beginning, I bet you [...]

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