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3 Ways to Tell if Your Guy is Emotionally Unavailable

Perhaps Your Guy Is Emotionally Unavailable If... Is your guy emotionally unavailable? You know what I mean.  In spite of all of your efforts, is there still a huge gap between you where it matters most?  The sad fact is that there are a lot of guys out there in the dating arena (both online and in-person) who project that they are open to a relationship but keep silent about the fact they are emotionally unavailable. The reasons for this condition are numerous, and no one situation is exactly like the other.  However, I want to take a [...]

4 How To Steps to Say No

No!  Say it loud and proud.  No? Why is it so hard to say no?  For many people, the hardest word in any language to utter is the word "no."  It seems that we are just hardwired to say "yes."  We say yes to friends who ask favors.  We say yes to the boss who needs someone to work overtime.  We say yes to the family member who needs us to perform a task for them.  Whenever anybody needs anything, we say yes. The truth is that we believe that saying yes is a sign of love or friendship.  It [...]