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6 Beautiful Changes for New Year Transformation

New Years Transformation TRANSFORMATION. A NEW DAWN, A NEW DAY, A NEW YEAR AND A NEW LIFE FOR YOU. New Years Resolutions - they’re all but a joke in our mainstream culture today. As soon as we’ve thought them up, we already “know” that we’ll never attain them, so we laugh with our friends about all the things we’re never going to accomplish. It’s all a little ridiculous. However, there’s no doubt that there’s something about the New Years transformation that gives us a burning desire for transformation. It’s why the New Years Resolution became an item in [...]

Leslie Saul

Growth – A Bit of Living; A Bit of Growing.

It all adds up to you. Strong foundation and growth As we grow, we change. We all know that to be true. We all want growth right? When someone says "You are not the person you used to be." I say, "I certainly hope not!" To think that I could have lived and loved, and experienced life; without being changed in some way would be, in a word, unacceptable. The Ingredients of Life - Growth Life is made up of experiences. Those experiences are the ingredients that make us the person we are. What we experience changes us. [...]

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Cheater! Do Leopards Change Their Spots?

True or False: Once a Cheater Always a Cheater? Of course everyone knows that leopards don't change their spots. That would be biologically impossible. However, the cliché was developed to examine whether or not someone who is known for a certain behavior can ever have the capacity to change. In this case, we are talking about cheaters. There is probably not a more painful experience to have, then to find out that someone you love and trust is cheating on you?. You may feel, betrayed, violated, and misused. How could they do that you! Maybe you confront them, and they [...]

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Confidence Doesn’t Give Men Erections; Vulnerability Does

Are women with confidence incapable of viewing men as human beings? There's a vile article by a blogger named Matt Forney making its way around the web recently that I refuse to link to because I don't want to give him the satisfaction. The piece is called "The Case Against Female Self Esteem," and while his ideas are hardly worth considering or engaging with, the conversation he brings up is an important one, so I thought I'd take a moment to reflect on his general theme and respond to some of his points in a broad way that I hope [...]

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8 Symptoms of Obsessive Love Disorder

When does healthy love turn to an obsessive love disorder Obsessive Love Disorder Love is a wonderful feeling, and the start of a relationship is such an exciting time of getting to know one another, mixed with the feeling of not being able to get enough of each other. Wanting to spend time together is completely normal, but in a healthy relationship, both parties need to be able to function and be happy, without having to be joined at the hip. When you become reliant on the other person for your own happiness, the situation starts to transform [...]

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