self help Archives | Leslie J Saul - Personal Development Coach

3 Tips to Avoid Irritating Your Guy and Turning Him Off

A girl's guide to greater intimacy. Are you turning him off? Are you turning him off? As hard as it is to believe, it is possible to stifle a guy's desire for sex. No...seriously...quit laughing! Maybe I should have clarified that first statement. It is possible to stifle a guy's desire for sex with YOU! There is that better? No? Well then just take my word for it. Okay, enough joking. Behaving in a way that comes between you and your guy, and the intimacy you enjoy is a serious matter. Guys may not be turned off by [...]

Leslie Saul

What Women Really Desire

Top 10 desires a woman wants in a man What Women Really Desire Okay, honestly, trying to list the top ten things a woman wants in a man can be a little like trying to hold smoke in your hand. It's nearly impossible. Ask a guy, and he'll tell you one thing. Ask a woman, and she'll tell you something else, depending on how she is feeling at the time. Still, overall there are a number of things that rise to the surface when it comes to the things women desire most in a man. I would like [...]

Leslie Saul

Are You Dating A Fluke or Flounder?

Fluke Or Flounder And When To Cut Bait In the world of dating, there are tons of fish in the sea. How do you know if what you have caught is Fluke or Flounder? One of our greatest assets is having the right to set our own boundaries and knowing when to cut bait. Learning when you should do that will save you tons of anguish, frustration and time. If the man you are dating demonstrates any of the following signs--HE is a Fluke. Cut bait and cast out again until you catch the Flounder. He refers to women as [...]

Leslie Saul

To Everything There Is A Season

I am a book that was written in February 1965 as the song To Everything There Is A Season by the Byrds, transmitted through the air from every radio station in America. Like the seasons, my story has a beginning, a middle and an end. It has a bright white glossy cover with splashes of pink and red and has been placed on coffee tables for conversation. My pages have never been read cover to cover. Although many people have picked my book up and admired the cover, they have mostly just skimmed through the pages for the highlights and [...]

Leslie Saul

Relationships

Relationships. Such a Beautiful Word. Love. Such a beautiful word isn’t is? I think of love and I think of red roses. Romance. Man and woman. Holding hands. Bliss. Connection. Hope. Joy. Peace. The world is right. But Love for me is needy, clingy, desperate. Please love me. Please don’t abandon me. Love for me is I can’t live without you. I will die without you. Like this morning. Wake up, rub the shmutz from my eyes and greet terror and fear. Like my dog who runs to greet me at my door, terror and fear greet me each and [...]

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