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Leslie J. Saul, Personal Development Coach

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Confidence Doesn’t Give Men Erections; Vulnerability Does

Are women with confidence incapable of viewing men as human beings? There's a vile article by a blogger named Matt Forney making its way around the web recently that I refuse to link to because I don't want to give him the satisfaction. The piece is called "The Case Against Female Self Esteem," and while his ideas are hardly worth considering or engaging with, the conversation he brings up is an important one, so I thought I'd take a moment to reflect on his general theme and respond to some of his points in a broad way that I hope [...]

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Is There A Proper Time To Lie?

Q: Is there a proper time to lie? My Fiancé lies about really stupid things and when I confront him, he tells me it is to spare me discomfort and protect me.  I am sincerely troubled about this and think if he is lying to me about such small details like a book or a CD, what is my life with him going to be like especially if something more important happens?  Is there ever a proper time to lie to someone? ~ Ticked in Temecula

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How To Spot The Signs Of Cheating

What are some signs of cheating? The Word Is Faithful, Look It Up No one likes to think that their mate would be unfaithful.  Often when an affair comes to light, we may be taken totally off guard.  However, studies show that in most cases, there were signs of cheating long before the truth was known about the affair.  Too often we are just not aware of the red flags, or ignore them altogether. In case you might be wondering about your mate's faithfulness, here are some of the signs of cheating that you should be looking for.  Please understand [...]

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4 How To Steps to Say No

No!  Say it loud and proud.  No? Why is it so hard to say no?  For many people, the hardest word in any language to utter is the word "no."  It seems that we are just hardwired to say "yes."  We say yes to friends who ask favors.  We say yes to the boss who needs someone to work overtime.  We say yes to the family member who needs us to perform a task for them.  Whenever anybody needs anything, we say yes. The truth is that we believe that saying yes is a sign of love or friendship.  It [...]

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Jealousy! Is it healthy?

We all experience mild feelings of jealousy throughout our lives. No matter how confident a person is within themselves, or how happy they are in a relationship, the green-eyed monster has a way of rearing its ugly head. And often it doesn’t take much to trigger it! Your partner may have a few new additions to their Facebook friends list that you don’t know, or even an attractive new colleague at work that makes you bristle at the mere mention of their name. But is a little bit of jealousy in a relationship such a bad thing? The simple answer [...]

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