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Leslie J. Saul, Personal Development Coach

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Love or Fear: Which will you choose?

What guides what we say and do? Love or Fear. These two opposing emotions help create our own realities and experiences. What we do and what we say is either from love or fear. Many of us react and act out of fear. Fear unfortunately holds us back from what we truly deserve in our lives: love. Many people I come across don’t know how to get past their fears and act from a place of love. I would even argue that many people are confused as to what love is. Love isn’t to be found, it’s to be shared. [...]

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Relationships

Relationships.  Such a Beautiful Word. Love. Such a beautiful word isn’t is? I think of love and I think of red roses. Romance. Man and woman. Holding hands. Bliss. Connection. Hope. Joy. Peace. The world is right. But Love for me is needy, clingy, desperate. Please love me. Please don’t abandon me. Love for me is I can’t live without you. I will die without you. Like this morning. Wake up, rub the shmutz from my eyes and greet terror and fear. Like my dog who runs to greet me at my door, terror and fear greet me each and [...]

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Parenting-The Fish Rots From The Head Down

When it comes to parenting, your kids learn behaviors from you. Parenting Is there a right and wrong here? When it comes to being a parent, I am no expert, but I will say this all has to do with communication. Having no children of my own and writing this article may cause some rough seas for this fish. That’s ok, I am fine with that, and I’ll just swim sideways and make my way back to shore. With that said, I can say I have been an expert at being a kid once (and still am at [...]

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Let’s Talk About Sex and Dating

Sex and dating. Let's talk about sex and dating Oops, I mean LOVE and dating! Captain Leslie J. Saul: Captains Blog, stardate 9522.6: I've never trusted Youngins', and I never will. I could never forgive them for MTV. It seems to me his mission to escort me to dinner is more a prelude to a peace summit. This is problematic at best. He says this could be a historic occasion, and I'd like to believe him, but how on earth can history get past people like me? 8 PM Monday night…shoving a 6 pack of White Castle burgers into [...]

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Conjunction Junction

Conjunction Junction, What's Your Function? https://youtu.be/ODGA7ssL-6g     Associate AND Dissociate People have habitual patterns of sensory association. While working with clients, I observed that many stay associated to fears AND trauma. Unconsciously it affects body position, movement, AND balance. They stay associated with emotions that are no longer needed but subconsciously feel they are getting some type of positive outcome, thus continuing an unhealthy pattern. Are you familiar with the term "Worrywart? " People who automatically connect into their emotions AND constructed representations of what may go wrong —while dissociating from soothing images AND sensory experiences that would [...]

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