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How To Build Lasting Relationships

Lasting Relationship Start at the Beginning Relationships are fragile things; at least in their infancy.  It seems that establishing healthy, lasting relationships is more difficult than you might at first believe.  Thankfully there are some simple things that you can do to get new relationships off on the right foot and strengthen older relationships that may be struggling. Eliminate Personal Expectations Expectations ruin relationships. The reason for this is because expectations are not, in most cases, mutually agreed upon.  When you enter into a new relationship with a set of things you expect to receive from the other person, you [...]

Finding True Love

3 Reasons Strong Women May Struggle in Their Love Life Can a strong woman really find true love with a man?  Whoa…this is going to be a good one!  The answer is yes; a strong woman can absolutely find true love.  Not all men are intimidated by strong women.  In fact, I am going to go out on a limb here and say that a truly strong man will be seeking the love of a truly strong woman. The concept of the weak, incapable, mousy woman is really a product of the last century or so.  History tells quite a [...]

Should You Always be Honest In Relationships?

To lie or not to lie, that is the question.  Should you always be honest? Do these pants make my thighs look big? Honesty is a major cornerstone of every relationship.  Everyone knows that relationships built on lies will soon crumble and fall.  If you can't trust someone to tell you the truth, then you cannot trust them at all.  Right? Well, if that is true, then what would you say to someone who asks, "Should you always be honest and tell the truth in a relationship?" The answer would seem to be yes, but then we have [...]

Confidence Doesn’t Give Men Erections; Vulnerability Does

Are women with confidence incapable of viewing men as human beings? There's a vile article by a blogger named Matt Forney making its way around the web recently that I refuse to link to because I don't want to give him the satisfaction. The piece is called "The Case Against Female Self Esteem," and while his ideas are hardly worth considering or engaging with, the conversation he brings up is an important one, so I thought I'd take a moment to reflect on his general theme and respond to some of his points in a broad way that I hope [...]

How To Spot The Signs Of Cheating

What are some signs of cheating? The Word Is Faithful, Look It Up No one likes to think that their mate would be unfaithful.  Often when an affair comes to light, we may be taken totally off guard.  However, studies show that in most cases, there were signs of cheating long before the truth was known about the affair.  Too often we are just not aware of the red flags, or ignore them altogether. In case you might be wondering about your mate's faithfulness, here are some of the signs of cheating that you should be looking for.  Please understand [...]